From Divorce to Deliverance: Wisdom from the Judge on Surviving (Paperback)

In this compelling self-help religious legal guide the author, Judge, Lawyer and Inspirational Speaker provides intimate details of the intricacies of the grief resulting from divorce. This how to guide will walk the reader through what to expect when involved in a divorce and what to expect when the reader comes face to face with the realities that life as they know it is about to change drastically. This book is a spiritual journey to find peace at the end of the Kübler-Ross identified five stages of grief. It takes the reader through the stages of a divorce step by step giving anecdotes along the way to describe each of the stages of grief, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance while offering a sixth step of deliverance from divorcing. Here the reader gets a glimpse of why sometimes divorce is worse than death's grief because in death the person is gone but in divorce the object of their angst is still walking, talking and breathing and getting past the hurts, pain and despair are more difficult because the perpetrator is still among the living. Detailed descriptions are offered on how to survive the process with one's sanity, dignity and spirituality intact. This book doesn't just offer hope to those who are hurting, it offers help to the protagonist. It offers them the opportunity to see where their spouse might be in the process and how they can best reach a positive conclusion to a devastating event. Every person who is contemplating divorce willingly or unwillingly will benefit from the soul searching inquiries they must make of themselves as they turn the pages and pray the prayers of guidance which close each chapter. You will celebrate with those who triumphed, cry with those who despaired and empathize with those whose lives resemble your own.